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(Originally published on Addiction Blog on April 3, 2015) If you are related to, in a relationship, or simply love an addict, life can be filled with many highs and lows. So, what are some TRUE...
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Originally published in www.psychologytoday.com on 9/8/2015 Family and friends can learn how to take care of themselves.. Years ago when I began teaching online, I tackled a steep learning curve in...
View ArticleMaking Progress in Writing and Recovery
Originally published on www.psychologytoday.com on October 27, 2015 I write and I recover from a loved one's addiction. Granted there are significant differences between the two, but several...
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Originally published on www.psychologytoday.com on November 27, 2015 Dear Abby's response to a loved one who just ended a relationship with an alcoholic: "Alcoholics are like everybody else:...
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View ArticleBreathing Exercises to Reduce Stress
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View ArticleDitch Perfection and Embrace Progress
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View ArticleUntangle Yourself From Your Loved One's Addiction
Last week in our loved one's group, Lois who volunteers in Haiti with her church group told this story. "One day while I was walking through the city on my way to get a bite to eat I came across a goat...
View ArticleDealing with the Holiday Blues
Overcoming The Holiday Blues My husband, Terry, died on Christmas Day. A suicide related to alcohol abuse. Now, many years later, as the holiday season approaches with its Black Friday sales, Salvation...
View ArticleIPAD Blunder
I’m out-of-town visiting my friend, Ted, at a skilled nursing facility. He sleeps. I read a book on my iPad. Hours pass. Ted’s daughter arrives. I wait for her in the lobby where I place my coat and...
View ArticleApril 5 - A Stretch
Originally posted on Story Circle Network One Women's Blog on April 5, 2015. Several years ago I signed up for a class in collage because I felt the need to stretch beyond the familiar, never mind...
View ArticleLoved ones of addicts: 10 things you can relate to
(Originally published on Addiction Blog on April 3, 2015) If you are related to, in a relationship, or simply love an addict, life can be filled with many highs and lows. So, what are some TRUE...
View ArticleWhat to do for a homeless family member? Recovery tools for a loved one in a...
The distressed phone call Recently a friend contacted me because her daughter, Laura, and her boyfriend had broken up. They had been sharing a tiny apartment with his relatives and now she was asked to...
View ArticleLessons Learned in Recovery
Originally published on www.psychologytoday.com on 9/8/2015 Family and friends can learn how to take care of themselves... Years ago when I began teaching online, I tackled a steep learning curve in...
View ArticleMaking Progress in Writing and Recovery
Originally published on www.psychologytoday.com on October 27, 2015 I write and I recover from a loved one's addiction. Granted there are significant differences between the two, but several...
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